space of silence, sense of peace
sharing with homeless and the poor
good way of dealing with external people (there is a dedicated host who keeps guests away from monks/nuns)
meals in silence (with readings of ~30 minutes)
focus, ritualistic points of reference
“could you walk around more slowly and quietly?”
having a clear place within a community
big age range
library
education for women
healthy debate about dogma and hierarchy
busy, quiet nuns - a lot to do, but not hectic; lots of hosting and visitors
hospitality, sharing economy, 'hostels' (money making activity), communal garden, cafe
lots of partying (celebrations)
deep sleep, a sense of peace
inhabitants are worldly people, aware, educated
most monasteries live “in the now”, they don't care about the middle ages (e.g. Hildegard makes them money)
singing tradition - music has a function in daily life, marking times of day, there is a structure that gives the freedom to free the mind; music flows through words of god
monastic life is not a retreat for the inhabitants, but for the guests
it's less about why they are there, but WHO is there - they wanted to be together - a self selecting group
Bhutan - most population is involved in monasteries in some time in their life…
In Europe you have to be quite driven to choose a monastic order